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Is It OK To Ask Your Girlfriend To Shave It Off?

Hi Doc Chaves,I’m 16 and am starting to have sex now. When talking withmy friends, I was the only one who had a girlfriend with a lot of hair in her bush. Itkind of makes me feel weird, and no one else likes it, either. Is it cool for me to tellmy girl to shave it? I don’t want to be a jerk. -DerekBack in Victorian England, there was a popular story of an aristocratwho was engaged to a very beautiful woman. He was never exposed to female sexuality or anatomy and learned about the female body from Greek and Roman art. Mostpeople at the time were poorly educated about sex. While on his honeymoon, he and hiswife got naked together, as most couples do, and he was appalled by the sight of herpubic hair. None of the art he saw had hair, and he thought she was disgusting. Sadly, he did not remain married to her, all because of her pubic hair.I’m telling you this story because we have an odd relationshipwith female body hair,and it stems in part from social constructs that help shape our attitudes. We’vebeen socialized not to like it and have become uncomfortable around pubic hair. But whatis it, really? Does it take away beauty, intelligence and personality? If anyone outthere said yes, I’m sorry to tell you, but that’s shallow. Wouldyou turn down Gisele forsome armpit hair? Kick Angelina outof your bed because of some leg hair? Female pubic hair is natural, normal and viewed as unattractive in large part because our media outlets have influenced our beliefs. Thirtyyears ago, you were nuts to shave down there. Besides, it’s no picnic to take careof female pubic hair. The word on the streets is women shave, wax, use electrolysis, andgo through uncomfortable and painful beauty regimens to conform. If youdecide to tell her to shave it, be prepared for an unwelcome response. You’re girlfriend is well aware of the popularity of trimmed/shaved vaginas, and there’s areason she is a teenager and going with the natural look. You’re better off askingher about why she chooses this and learning her side of the story before any requests.Lastly, pubic hair has been shown to release pheromones, so breath them in and enjoy yourpartner for who she is, not what you would make her.Small Penis Sex Positions

What could be a cool position that could help with me not having a big penis? I’monly four inches and would like to do the best I can for the girls I’m with.I’m not insecure about it; I just want to be all that I can be. Looking forpositions that get me deeper, really.-Anonymous We all should strive to be all that we can be in the bedroom. I’m happy toread you’re not making a big deal out of size. Most of the time, it’s themen, not the women, who are fixated on penissize. Most women want an average-size penis, which means five to six inches. Here are a couple of fun positions to try out. First, male superior (missionary) withthe female's legs near her chest. While lying on her back, she raises her knees to herchest or her legs are brought back to around her face. What this is doing is tilting herpelvis, opening up her vaginal canal, and creating more possibility for depth of penetration. You can also thrust in a low-to-high stroke and have your penis hit herG-spot. For an added twist, have her close her legs for a tighter feel. Another position is rear entry (doggy-style). While your partner is on her knees, haveher lower their head while pushing out their pelvis. Not only does this help with G-spotaccess, but it’s a very deep, penetrating position. Your partner’s head isclose to her knees/legs (notice a trend?). So make up your own variations while yourpartner is lying on her side, standing or discover other fun and creative positions.Remember, opening the pelvis helps with depth.More tips from Dr. Chaves,next... Continue Reading

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