Damn junky shit

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Originally Posted by niko

You are a good friend but you have to cut him loose and dont make it easy for him screw the room idea he will just steal the TV. Its up to him to be clean and let me tell you from experience its not easy practically the hardest thing i had to do. Good luck

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he hit it.gotta tough love him before he kills himself.everyone enabled me one way or another.i'd wake up sick as hell,not a penny in my pocket but by noon i had at least a hundred to get off on.like magic.if my mother didn't threaten to call the cops when she found i robbed the whole house,if my wife didn't kick me out in the street and said she'd been fuckin another dude after 20yrs together,if my friends didn't turn me away i'd be fucking dead right now.no doubt.this is just the begining of the fun.wait'll the real shit starts happening.your car,her shit,your shit,scams,you name it.that's when you'll wanna just kill him.i did alotta good people really grimy.
only thing i couldn't do was snitch and did time over it too even tho the shit wasn't even mine.you don't know how far this kid'll go to get out of a jam.being sick,scared,locked up makes a young mother fucker do stupid shit.all of a sudden your door gets kicked in and they play"guess what we found" whether gear or dope that he planted.get him out now.i know it's hard but goin to his casket lookin at his body then his family and then the guilt will make you nuts.trust me on that if anything.tough love brother,tough fuckin love.he'll thank you in one way or another...

bro, its a sad story but, you got to cut ties...I have numerous friends over the past 2 years get strung out on roxys/oxys and their life has done nothing but go down hill...They will latch onto anybody they feel like they can use and try to manipulate. People on these pain pills are 10x worse than crackheads bro, they will lie, cheat, and steal from freinds and family. The best thing to do is to cut him off. And definetly dont be haviing him staying in your house!

Last year i had a friend, and this story sounds similar to yours. Him and his girlfriend got real bad on oxys and were 3 months behind on their car payment, his gf came to me and asked if i would help them out, so i gave them money to catch up their car payment. A week later, he came to me and asked if i would give him some money to pay some "court cost" or he was gonna have to go to jail, so i gave them money......WELL comes to find out they DIDNT use the money for the car payments and DIDNT use the money for the "court cost". He went to jail, and she lost her car.

Moral of the story, seperate yourself from pillheads cause they will use you, and use you brother.

Sofar hes doing good at the rehab

That's fantastic news bro keep us posted!!! Was he wanting to go?

I think so I bought him all new cloths to go , he really had no where to go but there, I know its rough I did nubain for years and beat it so I know he can, I also told him ill help him get a place if he sees it through

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Originally Posted by bluegill

I think so I bought him all new cloths to go , he really had no where to go but there, I know its rough I did nubain for years and beat it so I know he can, I also told him ill help him get a place if he sees it through

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You did nubain, but were you addicted to oxy's too? Thats a whole other thing like apples and oranges. Oxy is like being addicted to heroine. Not to cast a dark shadow over your parade, but I do this for a living- He may not beat this first , 2nd , 3rd or for a long time. He needs to hit rock bottom and fix himself. Its great he is in a rehab place, however sometimes it back fires and they get a whole new bunch of contacts. DO NOT invest yourself - only he can do this. DO not let him back inyour life again or around your family until he is at least 2 years straight. Otherwise he will rob you and hurt you again and again . In 20 years I cant tell you how many friends and family members I have said these words too. They come to me and wonder why the addict dont get it?? I usually turn it around and ask why dont you? Tough lesson, but harder to live

AFter my post hit I just read what Rocco and NIko shared - These guys are right on. If you cant do this and Im trying to be a friend by saying this to you- then you need to see a professional- codependence will kill you in this situation. Do not lift a finger any more - you will lose. Im saying this to help you. YOU CAN NOT help an addict. Never. You can not believe an addict- they will always be an addict - addicts lie.

Nah me never oxcys just bain for a while I just rode it out thanx for all the advice

Blue, do you think your addicted to the addict? I dont like the fact he had no place else to go this tells me he is in for another ride once he gets out. How long is this rehab for? anything less than 6 months will not be enough and i think its good you are not giving up on him but you have to go about it the rite way. If you are 100% in this he wont have a chance unless professionals are there to help you. Hope this helps a bit.

Its 12months im gona just let it go and see how he is in a year I guess just suks he was a great bro in the past just a fukin shame