last night waS MY 1st night in my new place alone

Most of you read i was thinking about leaving my girl and getting my nown place well i did its not bup tp par yet as in all i have is a king bed,and a flat screen and shit to cook with. I started to think last nightb that im 32 years old and this is the 1st time ive lived without a girlfriend and it felt great a bit funny at 1st but I can dig it. Im trying to get back into school to take a few classes, plan on doing my 1st show,and just time really to focus on my kids a whole lot more so im very happy. I did manage to get my ex girl into a rehab for her xzanx issue so hopefully it will help her alot as well. We parted on good terms which made it so much better. So again thanks for all the advice my friends it really helped to get the ball rolling. I paid the remander of the rent at our apartment we had together so she could go to rehab and have a place to come back to so all in all im very happy. I know i might sound selfish but it feels great not having to always do everything for someone else and now just concentrate on myself. thanks again . IF ANYONE NEEDS MY ADDY TO SEND HOUSE WARMING GIFTS PM ME AS FUNDS ARE A BIT TIGHT NOW LOL j/k. thanks again for alll the great advice it really worked out. My plan is to just leave the ladies alone for a minute and besides work and the gym focus it all on my boys they are 11 and 13 the age where they need me the most. She was so negitive its like breathing fresh air again.




BG

congrats on the move bro. sounds like you are going to be tearing it up in no time

Hey buddy! Your task is not easy without doubts.

I do not know you at all, but from your post, it seems to me that you have a lot ot things on your plate.
Some of the choices we make in life may seem difficult, but in the end, you got to be true to yourself.
I am sorry to learn that there are children in between, they always get the worst of it, I am certain that you will handle them with love and respect during this time.

Keep your head up and strong.
The trick is not to leave chicks alone--trust me, I could write a book on that shit. The trick is to know how far, and to know your comfort zone.

Ok--have a wonderful day Bluegill


B2J4E

the kids are not from her, but i dont think she was the best girl to have them around so now I have their own room with bunk beds comming and i get them everyother weekend but there mom said if i want i can get them almost every weekend and all summer so im excited as shit they are two great boys perfect grades and great in sports. thanks again fellas i was holding on to that girl as a safety net the love or passion had been gone so it was the best thing i could have done.

The fact that you made the move speaks volumes. Making a big change like that is the hardest decision somebody can make. Enjoy it.

Congrats on the move bro. I know the feeling of being out of an unhappy relationship as much as anyone and it is a great one. As for leaving the ladies alone.. I'm pretty sure that's what we all say when we get out of relationships. A week or two later we practically live in the bars and have accounts on every online dating service out. Lol. The key is keeping it about fun and not rushing into things with the first good looking girl you hook up with. Good luck to a new start though.

thanx for the advice thats been a problem I rush into things too fast, im doimg my first show and really tryimg to focus alot on that also my sons have been stayin alot more so its going great

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Congrats on the move bro. I know the feeling of being out of an unhappy relationship as much as anyone and it is a great one. As for leaving the ladies alone.. I'm pretty sure that's what we all say when we get out of relationships. A week or two later we practically live in the bars and have accounts on every online dating service out. Lol. The key is keeping it about fun and not rushing into things with the first good looking girl you hook up with. Good luck to a new start though.

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Stand strong Brother.