Damn ex is killing me

For the life of me I cant understand why my ex always trys and hurt me by useing my sons, wtf. I give her 1100 $ a month support,get my boys almost eod,coach their football teams,buy cloths and do what I can take em fishing show em nature the best I can. It never fails though since she is a scorned woman she always trys and not let me get my boys over the pettyist shit unreal. We got into tonight over this, she asked my sons to take off their cloths that are kept at my house and put hers on, I know it sounds like no big deal but to be honest I dont want them to have to do that they can wear the cloths from my house home who cares it just puts in the little heads more and more how mom and dad arent together. It really messes with my oldest I think. Sorry to vent just dont understand why she wouldnt want to be on great terms with me when all i do is help as much as I can, just pisses me off.

My parents divorced when I was 6 years old. It was the same thing. My mom was a complete bitch, even though she was the one that cheated on my dad...which caused the divorce. I can tell you this: What goes around, comes around. Your children will grow up, and despise their mother.

I watched my mom do alot of cruel things to my dad while I was growing up. Parents dont realize that even though their children are young, they still know what is going on, and figure even more out as they got older.

I grew up to dislike my own mother. She acts like she is an angel now, and says that cheaters are bad people and people that sue others are bad as well....yet she has done both to my father and thinks that I dont know because I was young. WHat she doesnt realize is that I grew up having no respect for her because of this, and still dont have respect. My mother is fake and all about money and she is a hypocrite.

My dad was a jackass, but he was always honest to me. For that, I respect him.

So, just stay honest with your kids, and dont sink to your ex's level of behavior. Your kids will thank you and respect you for it later in life. And she will be stuck without the respect of her children.

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Originally Posted by Mutant

So, just stay honest with your kids, and dont sink to your ex's level of behavior. Your kids will thank you and respect you for it later in life. And she will be stuck without the respect of her children.

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Mutant got it right..

I agree with mutant also.... I lived thru exact situation

i agree with mutant as well.. im in a very similar situation as well

I wish she would just understand that acting this way in front or around my 2 boys makes no sence and shes just pushing them away, I go above whats asked of me to help her with anything shes just acts like an ass all the time, thanks for the input fellas

ur boys will understand.. kids are smart

yeah man they will see the true light. good luck on that you sound like you are doing the right thing in my book