You see a TV show, I try to look at it as why did that happen or why did this happen. And try to get a life lesson out of it. A lot of people look at it as how they want to be, and they don't know the right way to get to that position. The guy you don't want to be is the guy who is sitting alone home drinking with nothing to do at all. Atleast that guy they are referring to is out at the bar even with his nasty smelling cologne. Infact at that age you probably don't want to be single period, or even at a bar unless your with friends.