A lot of very valuable advise has been given to me here, and it is all appreciated.

I am in hell without my my true love. And I know that she has been sick and very depressed also...we have mutual friends and some share more than I need to know at times. But perhaps this is a process she and i need to go through in order to reunite and be together once again.
To me it is not so much that she may have slept with others. I know her well enough, and I do know that she has not done that. Lynn is very mature and very truthful. I would never judge her either as I am not perfect myself---

As far as my client. Yes I KNOW about mixing work and pleasure together can be the perfect combination to disaster.
But I also know that this is probably not the first time that it happens--when client trainer hook up. And it may work for some...as usual the law of the average, as with any relationship really.

Last night I spoke to my client about backing things down: I wanted to see where her head was at. She refused to back things down and insisted that we should get out there and hang out....get to know about each other more. We talked for 45 minutes. We have not "done it" yet. We have only gone out once, and did hot yoga class Sunday morning.
I don't believe in sleeping with a chick for the first 3-4 weeks until I feel she is worth a keeping....I have done too many mistakes in the past and have learned my lesson hahahahha

I do have one chick that is my weekend get-a-way kinda deal. No strings, no commitment and she understand that. Of course I know I need to cut that one lose once my client and I get serious.

Thank you each and every one of you for your posts. I take all with every sense of help.

B2J