Don't even think about getting back with your true love, its been 2.5 months, she probably already slept with someone else, and if you haven't yet hows that make you feel. I would find that out first. People say "If you love them it doesn't matter" YES it does matter, like I said if you have plans on getting back with your ex true love then you need to find some stuff out first, if not get on with your life and get with this girl. Being alone does suck, if thats your chance to get with her then go for it. If shes a good woman, you said she has a good head on her shoulders, then I don't see anything wrong with it.