so born2juice, I'm unclear...have you banged this chic yet??? If not.. I'd say take it slow...get to know her, you have plenty of time for sex. Sex will bring alot of emotions into the situation before you really get to know someone. I know..I sound like and old fucker but if you really want a relstionship to last, set the lust aside and become best friends, and when the sex does happen it will make it even better...