it goes down to the parnets. my wife never really had a man around her kids when her and the father of them got divorced most guys seen it has not there problem...so she never really put her foot in there ass so to speak.. she would just let them kinda do as they please to try and make up not having the money or what ever for them..


i was rasied by a southern man as my father and you didnt do certain things growing up one was walk in front of him if you did you'd get a kick in the ass and he'd look at you and tell you to move next time and you wont get kicked. another thing was reach across his dinner plate that would get you stabbed with his fork.. another was and this was a big one you did not eat before he sat down at the dinner table to eat also.. this was the man who made the money to pay for this meal the least you could do was wait on him...

these kids dont have that type of respect it seems...