My girlfriend went to italy and all she got me was a lousy break up

[Slimfatty]

TweetWow, bro..that was cowardly doing it in an email. You did the right thing by not saying anything derogatory to her or expressing yourself. Anything bad you say now during the pain and anger will only be brought up again if you guys get back together. The last time a chick did that to me she was getting ready to bang another guy. Chicks feel guilty if they cheat on you so they will break up with you so they don't have to feel guilty.....about anything. I'm not saying she is doing this to you, but it seems like it's a part of the female mentality. Don't do anything you would regret when she gets back just in case you plan on getting back with her......unless you don't want to get back with her. Then the best thing is to nail some other chicks..that always made me feel good again!! Good luck bro.

[airagee23]

TweetSorry to hear this bro. And its not your fault. As far as still being in love with her you cant help the way you feel. I think you should not have any contact at all with her. Ignore every attempt she makes to get in touch with you for awhile. Then when you feel its right a week a month then talk to her. Or dont talk to her anymore period. Once again sorry to hear this bro. Take care.

[teamgenetics]

Tweetthanks guys, i appreciate it! The thing is she isnt the hook up with random guys type, but you never fucking know because girls are unpredictable. she is in italy with no friends , no real friends, she went there with random people from her school with girls that dont give a fuck about their boyfriends because they cheated. And i hope that i find out which girls it is because i am going to fucking tell on them in a fucking heart beat. No guy or girl deserves to get cheated on EVER. If she loves me, she will tell me the truth, if it did happen, or something did happen and u better believe i will get it out of her if she did. I am friends with all of her friends so no matter if she tells me or not I WILL KNOW. Your right ajdos... she wants to fucking play, i'll fucking play, fuck her! im not answering her phone calls, im not emailing her anymore, and when she comes back im not fucking answering her phone calls. She wants to know what it feels like without me in her life and she will... and she will regret it dearly, I hate to be mean, but guys arnt knocking on her door to hook up with her in the states. In italy, its different cuz guys there are fucking sleeze balls. Dont get me wrong she's pretty but she's not THAT pretty and her body isnt attractive.

Once she heads home and hits that american soil she is going to say to herself "what the fuck did i just do" and then when she tries to come crawling back to me im going to tell her in the words of cartman on southpark, SUCK MY FUCKING BALLS! peace up a town down

[Kruzzer]

TweetHey, I'm and old fart too.....39.....Every One of them are just as nuts as the next one in 4.5yrs.....I know that your upset, but time heals all. Life goes on and you'll find someone else and you will be saying how awsome she is and you can't believe what you were missing and guess what??? She will turn out to be a nut too. Sorry....The only difference is that you just become too tired to care as you get older.......Don't sweat it Bro....you'll be just fine...feeling like a truck hit you is normal but it gets duller and duller everyday. Hang in there.

[teamgenetics]

TweetI LOST 10 POUNDS IN A FUCKING WEEK well if every girl ends up that way then i am not going to date a girl ever again, i'll have one night stands and thats it!

[teamgenetics]

Tweetalright guys here's the plan... no more emails no matter what she says after i replied to her lil email. then when she gets back, im not calling her, she has to come to me because if she wants time... she can take it. Then when she gets back i still wont talk to her for atleast a week, then i will find out where she will be with some frends and i will randomly be there with a group of frends and i will bump into her. I will go up to her and say hey anna, how was italy.. basically i will act like i am perfectly fine... then we will go from there and whenever we do talk one on one in person i will tell her how this whole situation made me feel, and how i feel about her. Im actually hoping she fucking begs for me back... but i dont know i havnt decided if i want her back because she is not being the person i fell in love with right now and this whole situation is fucked up.

I mght not even tell her how i feel, i might just act like i am completely uneffected by it but i guess i'll just play it by ear.

[apbt549]

Tweetsorry to hear that bro it sucks to be with some one for that long and then get dumped...AJ said it all....DO NOT answer her emails or phone calls..let know what a mistake she made...go out and enjoy your new found freedom.....you will meet somebody else if you don't then you don't....

i just got divorced from my wife we were married 5years and together 16years the last 5year my life sucked i wasn't happy she wasn't happy got sex once every 5 months or so didn't matter if was my birthday or not we i went out and met somebody i know it wasn't right but god damn i was miserable still doen't make it right what i done but i did it i am alot happier now i can do what i want and i get more sex then i did when i was married go figure..............


keep your head bro time will heal everything

[teamgenetics]

Tweetalright would the mods please delete this thread now... i dont want to even look at it anymore i want to move on... but i think ajdos was right, just by the way she is acting she probably met someone in italy and maybe cheated although she has never been the person who would cheat or anything to that nature but she isnt beng herself right now.. and in her email she kepts saying at this time, and right now she didnt want to be with me which is saying to me... she cheated or wants to so she broke up with me before she did. fucking girls man... no matter how good they are and how much you think you know them.... it never fails.. they are all bitches.

NEVER TRUST A PERSON THAT BLEEDS FOR 5 DAYS AND DOESNT DIE!

[ricky425]

Tweeti know we have talked about this already. but the reason that i changed my number the othe day is so that nikki cant get hold of me anymore. its much much easier to get over it when you dont hear their excuses and bullshit in your ear. they want you to want them while they do whatever the fuck they want. trust me ignore her and only remember that pussy ass e-mail. it will go buy much easier. call me if you want bro..

[teamgenetics]

Tweet**update** dumb bitch , AS SOON as she hits american soil who is the first person she calls???? ME. then today im talking to her on the phone and i ask her.. what the fuck are we, are we broken up, are we on a break, or what? and she says " we are in relationship limbo" ???????????????? WHAT THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN? then i said im in the twilight zone cuz i dont know what the fuck is going on! lol im sick of this shit, im not trying to get back with her anymore, she broke up with me, if she wants me she can come get me, fuck this! im going on a date tonight negros later!