My girlfriend went to italy and all she got me was a lousy break up

[miss diesel]

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question is... how long lol i thought maybe i could still be her friend but now the more i think about it... i couldnt cuz it would just hurt me too much especially if i saw her with another guy i would flip!

I'm so afraid of being hurt again ... that I haven't been in a serious relationship in 3 years. As I said, it takes time but how long it will take for you to heal depends on many factors and I can't answer that question.

Everyone keeps telling me that Prince Charming is out there .. I personally doubt that but who knows?

I'm sure that you'll meet somebody one day who will capture your heart again and all the misery you're going through right now will be forgotten.

Take care, teamg!

[bbcoach]

TweetHey man keep your head up!! things happen for a reason, this will make you stronger and if you get back with her it will make your relationship better. I know i have been there.. My GF fucked my best friend, you talking about hurting!!! hell man i lost everything my girl and best friend at the same time. We all make mistakes and me and my girl worked things out it took a long time.. things are really good now, we are stronger together. If she doesn't want you then let it go and you will find another great person i promise.

Miss Diesel you too will find someone. you just have to take that chance thats the great thing about love if it works, if not it hurts like hell.. i wish you both the best..

[DOMESTICAMPS]

TweetDon't let this change you who are. Be true to yourself and be strong as hard or impossible it might seem right now. If you need to talk feel free to PM me I'm here for you.

[teamgenetics]

Tweetactually it helped me. besides being depressed and shit... im the kinda person who says i am going to do something and then takes like a week to do it.. today i changed that, i did alot a shit today, i made a to do list and did everything i put on it.. i saved some stuff for the rest of the week so i can keep my self busy, because when im not busy i start to think about her and get sad. I just need to think the worse but expect the best, which I have already done, if we work things out then we do, and if we dont life moves on. I Love her and miss her but she did me wrong and i dont deserve that. thanks guys

[Downtown]

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Being the old man I am - let me share some of my wisdom- women are truly the most unpredictable creatures on earth- they are erratic and illogical as opposed to men whom dwell in the state of reason.
There is a movie quote from "as good as it gets" Jack Nicholsons character is approached by a young female admirere who asks him how he writes women so well he responds sarcastically "I think of a man...then I take away reason and accountability" this is one of the best descriptions of women I have ever heard and when women are confronted with it they are truly preterbed and that only gives more validity to the statement/
Now in your situation- there is nothing wrong with being upset, still feeling love for her and being emotional as hell- thats perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of- we all have been there.
However and please understand this the most-she broke up with you- this is a declaration of rejection.
The best thing to do is move on, not emotionally but in her life- just remove yourself- no "just friends" just go- she is asking to have you gone (weather she says that or not) so be gone.
I say this with a bit of spite but the truth is women do this shit without truly thinking things through and this is more a demonstration of impulsive behavior.
She more than likely has met someone during her travels and is trying to do the right thing and remove the burden of guilt from herself. FINE- but bro its time to turn your back on her and make her understand that such decisions are permanant in the adult world...dont reply to emails dont answer phone calls, make yourself vanish from her world- it is the consequence to her actions- many times women want to remove the romantic connection (sex) and keep the emotional attachment- thats fucking shit in my book- its all or nothing- dont let that happen- she can either be with you or without you.
I have said this to many of my fellow man and some listen and some dont but the ones that dont ALWAYS regret letting their ex hang around in the picture- at this point there is no going back so the best thing here is a clean break.
Just some advice from an old man.

TG.....This is the best advice you have got so far. Follow exactly what AJ said. I have been in some nasty breakups and I promise you this is the way to handle it.