My girlfriend went to italy and all she got me was a lousy break up

[bbcoach]

TweetHey man keep your head up!! things happen for a reason, this will make you stronger and if you get back with her it will make your relationship better. I know i have been there.. My GF fucked my best friend, you talking about hurting!!! hell man i lost everything my girl and best friend at the same time. We all make mistakes and me and my girl worked things out it took a long time.. things are really good now, we are stronger together. If she doesn't want you then let it go and you will find another great person i promise.

Miss Diesel you too will find someone. you just have to take that chance thats the great thing about love if it works, if not it hurts like hell.. i wish you both the best..

[DOMESTICAMPS]

TweetDon't let this change you who are. Be true to yourself and be strong as hard or impossible it might seem right now. If you need to talk feel free to PM me I'm here for you.

[teamgenetics]

Tweetactually it helped me. besides being depressed and shit... im the kinda person who says i am going to do something and then takes like a week to do it.. today i changed that, i did alot a shit today, i made a to do list and did everything i put on it.. i saved some stuff for the rest of the week so i can keep my self busy, because when im not busy i start to think about her and get sad. I just need to think the worse but expect the best, which I have already done, if we work things out then we do, and if we dont life moves on. I Love her and miss her but she did me wrong and i dont deserve that. thanks guys

[teamgenetics]

Tweetok, sorry guys i had to ignore ur advice, i couldnt hold my feelings in anymore to her so i sent her a email telling her how i feel, I feel so much better after doing it, and atleast she knows how i feel about the whole situation and her. I Hope she realizes that any other guy would be like fuck you and say NEXT! I had nothing to lose by sending her the email but a load off of my back. Man i feel great right now!

[awakened615]

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actually it helped me. besides being depressed and shit... im the kinda person who says i am going to do something and then takes like a week to do it.. today i changed that, i did alot a shit today, i made a to do list and did everything i put on it.. i saved some stuff for the rest of the week so i can keep my self busy, because when im not busy i start to think about her and get sad. I just need to think the worse but expect the best, which I have already done, if we work things out then we do, and if we dont life moves on. I Love her and miss her but she did me wrong and i dont deserve that. thanks guys

Excellent idea TG. Not only does the to do list keep your mind off of her by keeping yourself busy bro but it also delegates you to follow through with things, be on time, keeps you organized and also helps you become a more responsible person. I am also happy to see that your not letting your feelings and emotions get the best of you like earlier this week. I pray each passing day makes you stronger and also that you 2 will work things out and stay together and again this will only make your relationship bond stronger pending you can work through this. If yous don't then you will still benefit because you will be stronger as an individual. Try not to carry the trust issues you might have against women/her into any other relationships brother. That will be the hardest task of all. Baggage always tends to follow. Praying really does help sometimes but pray not so much for what you want to happen and let God work his magic for you. Just pray for his will and to take away any hurt you feel. You would be surprised at how much this helps bro. I was just telling a member at ABB that I am in no way shape or form a religious person but I do beleive in God and when I remember to pray regularly in my life it always seems to help me through the roughest times. It sounds silly when I think about it but even though my prayers don't always get answered how I want them to or think they are going to. They always get answered and it always works out for the best. I just have faith in something greater then me that I just choose to call God. Try it bro. Goodluck to you when she comes home and I will keep your situation in my prayers so even if you don't know how to pray or don't want to I will for you bro. TTYL. Respectfuly, Awakened

[teamgenetics]

Tweetthanks awakened... i seriously feel better now that i told her how i felt

[teamgenetics]

Tweeto , i told her in the email not to email me back unless she had something positive to say lol

[apollo]

TweetI'm sorry Bro. But just be glad you are'nt carrying around alot of guilt and shame like I am- I still cant get over it.

[teamgenetics]

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I'm sorry Bro. But just be glad you are'nt carrying around alot of guilt and shame like I am- I still cant get over it.

well why would i be carrying around alot of guilt and shame? i didnt do anything wrong...

[teamgenetics]

Tweetso ya, i bought a new toy yesterday a 1991 300zx twin turbo i feel much better now