Tweetgood luck and let us know how it goes Bluegill!
Tweetgood luck and let us know how it goes Bluegill!
TweetHe left for the west coast I spoke with his family and they sent him to a rehab I sent him some cloths yesterday I hopee he changes.
TweetSofar hes doing good at the rehab
TweetThat's fantastic news bro keep us posted!!! Was he wanting to go?
TweetI think so I bought him all new cloths to go , he really had no where to go but there, I know its rough I did nubain for years and beat it so I know he can, I also told him ill help him get a place if he sees it through
TweetYou did nubain, but were you addicted to oxy's too? Thats a whole other thing like apples and oranges. Oxy is like being addicted to heroine. Not to cast a dark shadow over your parade, but I do this for a living- He may not beat this first , 2nd , 3rd or for a long time. He needs to hit rock bottom and fix himself. Its great he is in a rehab place, however sometimes it back fires and they get a whole new bunch of contacts. DO NOT invest yourself - only he can do this. DO not let him back inyour life again or around your family until he is at least 2 years straight. Otherwise he will rob you and hurt you again and again . In 20 years I cant tell you how many friends and family members I have said these words too. They come to me and wonder why the addict dont get it?? I usually turn it around and ask why dont you? Tough lesson, but harder to live
TweetAFter my post hit I just read what Rocco and NIko shared - These guys are right on. If you cant do this and Im trying to be a friend by saying this to you- then you need to see a professional- codependence will kill you in this situation. Do not lift a finger any more - you will lose. Im saying this to help you. YOU CAN NOT help an addict. Never. You can not believe an addict- they will always be an addict - addicts lie.
TweetNah me never oxcys just bain for a while I just rode it out thanx for all the advice
TweetBlue, do you think your addicted to the addict? I dont like the fact he had no place else to go this tells me he is in for another ride once he gets out. How long is this rehab for? anything less than 6 months will not be enough and i think its good you are not giving up on him but you have to go about it the rite way. If you are 100% in this he wont have a chance unless professionals are there to help you. Hope this helps a bit.
Last edited by niko; 01-10-2011 at 05:55 PM.
TweetIts 12months im gona just let it go and see how he is in a year I guess just suks he was a great bro in the past just a fukin shame
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