Quote Originally Posted by bluegill View Post
I think so I bought him all new cloths to go , he really had no where to go but there, I know its rough I did nubain for years and beat it so I know he can, I also told him ill help him get a place if he sees it through
You did nubain, but were you addicted to oxy's too? Thats a whole other thing like apples and oranges. Oxy is like being addicted to heroine. Not to cast a dark shadow over your parade, but I do this for a living- He may not beat this first , 2nd , 3rd or for a long time. He needs to hit rock bottom and fix himself. Its great he is in a rehab place, however sometimes it back fires and they get a whole new bunch of contacts. DO NOT invest yourself - only he can do this. DO not let him back inyour life again or around your family until he is at least 2 years straight. Otherwise he will rob you and hurt you again and again . In 20 years I cant tell you how many friends and family members I have said these words too. They come to me and wonder why the addict dont get it?? I usually turn it around and ask why dont you? Tough lesson, but harder to live