AFter my post hit I just read what Rocco and NIko shared - These guys are right on. If you cant do this and Im trying to be a friend by saying this to you- then you need to see a professional- codependence will kill you in this situation. Do not lift a finger any more - you will lose. Im saying this to help you. YOU CAN NOT help an addict. Never. You can not believe an addict- they will always be an addict - addicts lie.