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      Default Damn junky shit

      Long story short an good buddy I trained with years ago got hooked on nubain then oxys, ne how I let him stay with me to get his shit together well hes been gone for three days and my old lady just noticed a bunch of her shit is missing, rings and shit. Wtf im in a bad spot but I cant have him stealing shit,what would yall do. I know its the drugs but ive done everything paid debts for him and all. Im thinking just get him a room for a few nites and hes on his own,beatting him ant gona do shit hes100pounds wet. Ne ideas, plus now shes in my fukin ear.

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      Quote Originally Posted by bluegill View Post
      Long story short an good buddy I trained with years ago got hooked on nubain then oxys, ne how I let him stay with me to get his shit together well hes been gone for three days and my old lady just noticed a bunch of her shit is missing, rings and shit. Wtf im in a bad spot but I cant have him stealing shit,what would yall do. I know its the drugs but ive done everything paid debts for him and all. Im thinking just get him a room for a few nites and hes on his own,beatting him ant gona do shit hes100pounds wet. Ne ideas, plus now shes in my fukin ear.
      Man, that is some seriously awful shit.

      Look you've done all you can do for your friend, but addicts don't think in terms of friendships and/or reason. They think of how they are next going to get high and are going to do whatever it takes to get that fix...even if they have to step on some toes and fuck some friends over.

      Confront your friend, and tell him what he has done is wrong. Be firm, but not aggressive. Tell him you care for him, and his life but there is only so much you can do for him. Try to convince him to voluntarily check into a clinic, and let him know you'll be there every step of the way to help him and back him up...

      Make it clear to him that you are willing to do anything and everything to help him get clean again, but if he burns you, you will have no choice but to turn your back on him...

      Fool me once, shame on you.

      Fool me twice, shame on me.

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      Thanx bro its hard to see him this way last year I paid 10grand for a rehab for him and he split after a week in. I just feel" like if he leaves and dies it would be on me somewhat. Its sad this guy was once 250pounds solid now hes like 112. Again thanx and good luck on ur squat goals that shits insane.

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      Quote Originally Posted by bluegill View Post
      Thanx bro its hard to see him this way last year I paid 10grand for a rehab for him and he split after a week in. I just feel" like if he leaves and dies it would be on me somewhat. Its sad this guy was once 250pounds solid now hes like 112. Again thanx and good luck on ur squat goals that shits insane.
      Man, that's a very kind hearted thing to do....but I hate to say it bro, you are doing/have done all you can. You can't carry that kind of burden on your shoulders and feel for someones decision. Just stay strong and be supportive, yet do not allow yourself and your family to be taken advantage of. Thanks for the best wishes on the squats man, but It's gonna be a long year/road. I'm gonna post a video at 50, then one at 100. Then one of the 150 attempt!

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      You are a good friend but you have to cut him loose and dont make it easy for him screw the room idea he will just steal the TV. Its up to him to be clean and let me tell you from experience its not easy practically the hardest thing i had to do. Good luck

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      Niko got it.

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      Bro- let this be a bitter life lesson. I do this professionally so trust me- NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER HELP OR TRUST AN ADDICT. YOU WILL ALWAYS REGRET IT. DROP EM OF AT A DETOX THATS IT THEN SAY SAYANARA

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      it's hard to do to a friend but your home is your safe house and where you and you girl lay your head at. If he is stealing from you tell him to get lost you tried and all he cared about was where he was going to get his next high. I have dealt with addicts before maybe when he is out on the streets and has no where to go and no money he will relize it is time to get straight. Sometimes that is what it takes for someone to get staight, it is hard to do to someone but sometimes you gotta turn your back on them.

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      good luck and let us know how it goes Bluegill!

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      Default Re: Damn junky shit

      He left for the west coast I spoke with his family and they sent him to a rehab I sent him some cloths yesterday I hopee he changes.

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