great post. Me and my wife were a little resentful of the change our son brought when he was first born. I didn't train for months and we never went anywhere or did anything remotely close to the lifestyle we had before. but as time has passed, our son is 2yrs old now, we have seen the changes in him and ourselves and the rewards of parenthood outway everything else. now i train for about 1hr 15min 3-4xweekand we do go to dinner or a movie or a comedy club every so often but by the end of the night we miss the little guy and can't wait to be home. More so than just saying it's all about him, i say it's all about US AS A FAMILY!!!!!