I also think it's relative to who is doing the comparing. If you compare yourself to the average middle aged person(i'm 36yrsold) then i'm sure most people would say they are better than the average person. But we aren't looking to the average american for a comparison, we look up to the pro's and they way i see it i'm a good 30-40lbs off of that mark and it seems so elusive. And while only a small percentage of people out there will get to that point of development, it is still the ideal proportions that i seek. For me anything less looks like a "fitness model" not a bodybuilder. I want it to be unmistakeable that i am a bodybuilder no matter what i wear. Evan Centopani was quote saying "Small guys wear underarmour shirts to try and show that they have muscle. When you are really big your muscles show no matter what you wear." That's kinda the same mindset I have. If your traps, delts, back and chest are busting out of a xxl t-shirt and it's still hanging loose at the waiste then you might be big. Well i guess that's enough insight into my sickness.....