Re: I left my girl last night for good....
TweetI think I know what you're going through, bro. I went through it with my dad and a past gf. While I see, baby1's point and respect her opinion, I always felt that there are two types of people when it comes to alcohol:
1)Alcoholics/Alky- These individuals feel that they need a drink anytime and anyplace throughout the day. I've watched friends of my dad actually put Jack Daniels in his cup of coffee. That's just freaking sick!
2) Uncontrollable drinkers- This is probably a higher percentage than alkies. These individuals can control WHEN they drink but never the quanitity of what they drink. In other words, once they've taken that first drink, they never stop until they're drunk. That's how my dad and a past gf was. My gf got drunk off of beer and it seemed that we always got into arguments when she'd become drunk. However, there were also occassions when it made the sex greater.
As for my dad, I often wondered how the hell we used to get home without him getting into an accident. There were many times when he was seriously plastured before driving us home.
Stay strong, bro. Sadly, as IPL pointed out, you can't change her. You can only be there for her, if she still wants you. Otherwise, move on and wish her well.
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