PitBull almost had me pulling for him on that last post...BUT, well I am actually doing ok working my ass off now putting my wife through school but it was a biotch to get to this point,LOL.Went through an ugly marriage with a woman that didn't want kids atleast after the new wore off (what a scuzz),so I was taking care of her sorry ass and my kids(love my babies).Split a number of times,came home to a house with no furniture, LOL, the cow moved it during the day but I hung in there waiting on the time to get custody of my kids,can't count the number of times I let her move back in but for the kids sake or my sake to be close to the kids.Went through alot more but I will cut closer to the chase,finally divorced her after walking out on her one day for letting my daughter watch programs she shouldn't have been watching at her age (her mom wanted a buddy not a daughter).I told the kids mom she could have everything all I wanted was my children and guess what ,she gave them to me without a fight and the kids and I well we started over again.My son was 8 and my daughter was 10 when I received custody of them,one thing I started lifting at 15 and had to keep giving up time and time again on my dreams to take care of the most precious individuals in my life and that was just how it was.During this whole journey I was given ultimatums by jobs, here is an example:I was told to do something concerning my children because they needed me to work later into the evening and I had two weeks to do so, wrong answer none tells me to make a choice between being there for my children and a job,so you all know I found another job and that is the kind of things I went through alot mainly because I had no help with my kids not from their mom nor from my so called family.We survived somehow,moved alot went through alot but made it, there is more but will bring it to a close now,My son is now 20 and daughter 22 married and putting herself through school, oh and lets not forget my beautiful 2 yr. old grandson (makes me sound old) LOL.My son is working at a major retail chain and wanting to move into management and me I am remarried working alot and putting my new beautiful wife of 3 yrs through school and no it's not easy but I look back and would I change it probably not as it brought me a wonderful woman and children that know what it is like to struggle so they are looking to get ahead in life and make a better life for their kids.