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SF, hang tough brother, I got custody of my son and daughter when they were 8 and 10 and now they are 20 and 22.We didn't have much and I had to switch jobs alot just to have time with my kids.(Time together is more important),Their mother was the same way , a piece of garbage that didn't want anything to do with her own kids.I didn't train much and didn't use any gear for years just trying to make ends meet my friend,It was a struggle but I wouldn't trade it for the world as my kids remember and know what sacrifices I made.They look back and tell me: Dad we understand why this or why that and they appreciate everything.I feel you brother,believe me what you are saying hits close to home with me.It all gets better with time and hearing your kids tell you they now understand and thank you for doing all you could at the time is just priceless.
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Oh one thjng I left out bro, I never received any child support while they were growing up and not much after they were grown.
Yeah thanks I have been told it will pay off in the long run as I have 2 girls and they say they will take care of me in time.

Mine were 18months and 3 years old they are now going on 16 and 18 with one having a great chance at a scholarship.