I would like to add that i wouldn't change anything in my life and that this has just continued to motivate me to keep working hard on want to keep moving up within my company. Nothing in this world compares to the amazing things my sons says at 2 1/2years old and i have the most supportive wife in the world(shes a little needy but aren't they all?lol). We had my cousins 5 yr old twins spend the night on friday and everyone had a blast. It was nice to see the next generation being so close. These kids truely love spending time together and that is priceless. As kids me and my cousins were all very close. Everyone saw each other on the holidays and it was great. As my generation began getting married and having kids the ability for us all to get together seemed less and less. Everyone now had inlaws to fit into their schedules and it made things very tough. My cousin was recently divorced and during that process we had a few heart to hearts and she even sat down with my wife to share some of her stories and it really meant a lot to my wife to be "let in" like that. We have begun focusing back on getting more extended family time in because at the end of the day those people will always welcome us. Wow, my estrogen levels must be spiking, this was quite a deep story to share, time for a 1g tesgt shot to get things balancd out.