ya she broke up with me in italy, then when she came back tried to say she didnt break up with me and that we are in relationship limbo... she basically stringed me along, i dont even think she knew what she wanted, i dont even think she wanted to break up with me, but i guess things happen for a reason. im not calling her.. and i promise she wont be calling me.. i told her not to call me unless she wanted to talk about us, and i told her i cant be friends, its all or nothing. this shit sucks, I did everything i could to try to keep the relationship together, atleast i go down knowing i atleast tried. im done on this subject guys. thanks for all ur words and comments.. i appreciate it.