Thanks for the support everyone.....I tried calling her and smoothing things over but she doesn't want to change; she doesn't have a problem.

"Love, whether or not you choose to see this you've got a problem with alcohol..."

The first words out of her mouth? YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH STEROIDS.

It's a common trait of those with a drug / alcohol problem to point the finger and shame someone else for anything they can.

This is totally hopeless. Tomorrow she is also informing me shes sueing me (for what I've no idea...I don't owe her money) and also filing a restraining order on me. How cute considering I've no desire to talk to someone like that.

You can't love someone until you love yourself....That's as simple as it gets.